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Jo Rothman
Not Your Average Jonah
My name is Jo, my pronouns are they/them, and I have no idea what I'm doing.
Welcome! My name is Jo, short for Jonah. This is where I write about queer and disability issues, social justice, and whatever else comes to mind. I also offer training and education!

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Tu B'Av Reflections: What Is Love?
Baby, don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. (Y'all know I had to do it.) We've just passed the Jewish holiday of Tu B'Av, often referred to as the Jewish Valentine's Day. However, unlike Valentine's Day, many people celebrate Tu B'Av as being about all kinds of love, not just romantic love. So I thought I'd take a moment to talk about the shapes love takes and what it means to love outside of a romantic context. The ancient Greeks differentiated six specific types of love. T
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Aug 11, 20255 min read
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Meaning and Joy (Wheaton College Lavender Graduation)
I'm here to remind you that the world is good and worth saving.
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Jul 17, 20256 min read
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Yeeterus Part 3: Recovery
CW surgery, gross body things We're now three months past my gender-affirming hysterectomy; I previously detailed the preparations for,...
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Aug 2, 20236 min read
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Yeeterus Part 2: Surgery
CW: surgery, gross body things Two weeks ago, I underwent my first (and hopefully only!) major surgery, a gender-affirming hysterectomy....
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May 5, 20236 min read
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Yeeterus Part 1: Prep
CONTENT WARNING: surgery, mention of pregnancy and childbirth Among many other exciting happenings this year - getting a dog, having my...
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Apr 19, 20239 min read
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Eugenics Is Not Theoretical
Yep, I've been gone for a while and now I'm gonna dive right into some heavy shit. Life updates (of which there are several) will happen...
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Mar 9, 20234 min read
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Gender Machine Broke: Understanding Nonbinary Identities
The number-one thing any out nonbinary person knows is that most binary people - cis and trans - have no concept of what "nonbinary"...
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Jun 30, 20225 min read
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Unpacking the Pronoun Struggle
In 2018, I was working at a camp and met a lawyer with some white man name - Jeffrey, Jeremy, who knows, let's call him Jeffremy - who...
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Jun 22, 20225 min read
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Allyship Part 3: Allyship Is Determined By the Oppressed
It happens all the time: someone will drop a [homophobic/transphobic/racist/ableist/etc.] comment, and when they're called out, they'll...
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Jun 15, 20226 min read
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Allyship Part 2: Allies Take a Seat
Four years ago, I reposted a text post on Facebook: "Remove the word 'preferred' from your language when talking about transgender...
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Jun 8, 20228 min read
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Allyship Part 1: Corporations Are Not Allies
It's June 1, babes! Pride month is here, and that means two things: hot enby summer has officially begun, and corporations are trying to...
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Jun 1, 20223 min read
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The Pride Guide: How to Go to Pride Events
It's coming, y'all - pride month starts in a week. And every year, I see a lot of pride event questions, so let's talk about safety,...
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May 25, 20224 min read
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Gay Fetishization Is A Problem
Today I'm steamed. I've been steamed for a few days, actually. Why? Because of gay fetishization. See, there's this phenomenon. People -...
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Jun 13, 20198 min read
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